Tag: relationships

If a Soulmate Chooses Not to Continue the Relationship…

Even after loving someone wholeheartedly, when a friend neither loves in return nor understands you and goes further to cut off all ties with you and begin other associations...how heartbreaking that is! We go...

A Good Human Being

We often look at someone and say, ‘He is a good person’.'That impression comes from the way that person behaves or speaks - how they make us feel. But what really makes someone a...

Some Lessons for Life

Respect, honour, love and recognition are the desires and needs of every human being. No one wishes to be ignored. Very few people willingly turn away from being honoured. Yet how can anyone earn...

Freedom

Human beings are, in the ultimate sense, free. It is into freedom that they are born. Breaking through the secure abode in which they had lived until yesterday, they are suddenly born into their...

Poverty

Poverty is not merely the absence of food to eat or the failure to meet one’s basic needs. Poverty is also the loss of self-respect and the compulsion to live dependent on others. Yet...

Is Life Moving into a ‘Phone Body’?

Our hands seem to be losing their strength. It feels as though they have become so weak that they can no longer grip even an ordinary object firmly. Our vision is becoming blurred. These...

Broken Pots

There was once an earthen pot in a household. Over time, it developed a crack. Everyone in the family concluded that it was no longer useful. But the grandmother of the house said, “Don’t...

Habits That Endanger the Brain

The brain is like a weapon that must be sharpened regularly. If life is to remain creative, productive and full of energy, the brain must also remain active and efficient. Yet, knowingly or unknowingly,...

Let Your Decisions Be Guided by the Future

Whatever the nature of a relationship may be, does entering into it mean that it must be continued until the end of one's life, even if it is no longer fulfilling? Very often, what...

The  Burden of Self-Consciousness

One of the things that weighs   heavily  on many people is self-consciousness. Thoughts such as "What will others think of me?", "Did I say something wrong?", or "How do I look?" can become...

Do you ever lie to yourself?

What a question, isn't it? We usually think of lies as something we tell other people. We lie to secure our own interests, to achieve our own ends, to protect our self-respect-and in countless...

Status

The English word ‘status’ has several meanings in Malayalam, depending on the context. It may mean position, condition, standard, social standing or state. Accordingly, there is social status, health status, current status and status...

Invest in friendships

Friends can arise from anywhere. The birth of a friendship is like an unexpected event in life. Sometimes, a friend can come up into...

Some  Dangerous Thoughts

A general notion exists that thoughts based on ‘I’ are dangerous. Many people justify this notion on the ground that the root cause of...

Love With All Your Heart

“Life is the flower for which love is the honey” Victor Hugo. Can a honey-less flower attract beetles? Will anyone be led towards an unloving...

Between Mothers-In-Law And Daughters-In-Law

The issue between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law is not of recent origin. It is perhaps as old as the history of the human race.

How  To  Manage Time  Effectively?

Lives of married couples are often hectic and stressful. Their lives are caught up in the hectic maze of office, home and children. Couples,...

A Hand To Hold On To

Every man and every woman is in need of a hand to hold on to. While we hold someone’s hand, we are actually telling them that we are with them, do not worry etc.

A TRIBUTE TO VALENTINE

FEBRUARY 14 – A DAY FOR LOVE Love forgets everything. It ignores the past and future. Its existence is in the present. Persons who are...

Kill Your  Enemy!

“From now on, I do not want to maintain any relation with that person!” said one of my friends citing the name of another...